It is not immoral that someone finds you attractive and even want to take things further with you. We are all wired to find something attractive, admire it and even want to have it. Whenever I find my spec, I appreciate them and sometimes something in me wants to push me more forward towards them and then I delimit myself. Anyway, if you are a woman and you are really interested in knowing if he likes you or not, I have written just few ways among many ways that you could really be sure he likes you and if you like him too, why not flash your green light and give him that “I like you too” code and maybe, it is going to be a start of something new.
Ding-a-ling! Wedding bell is ringing! Don’t forget to send me an invite! Lol! But hey! Hold on, be sure you’re both compatible before you answer the higher calling. Okay, let’s roll it.
1. HIS ATTITUDE
If he likes you, his disposition towards you will be different. It is either he is playing around with other girls at your presence but acts with respect towards you or he plays around you but acts really calm towards others. Most times, it is likely that he acts cool towards you but some dudes are really weird! If you always notice his attitude change when you are around, you’ve got a clue but you need more clues.
2. HE LAUGHS AT YOUR “NONSENSE” JOKES
Well, don’t mind people who always laugh at everything but when he really likes you, your boring jokes will sound like that of a pro comedian to him. He will laugh at your every joke. Don’t mistake his laughter with you being good at jokes, you may have zero sense of humour but he is not okay because he likes you. Don’t blame him that much!
3. HE SMILES AT YOU
You see this? It works for every guy even those ones who are shy. I am speaking from experience. When he likes you a lot, he may not be bold enough to play around you but aside being cool around you, he will always smile at the sight of you. It may not be a broad smile but his lips will definitely curve upwards. If you want to catch him “red-handed”, smile back at him. Oh God! You’ll literally see his heart melt.
5. HE PRETENDS HE DOESN’T CARE
This is not the case for everyone but this is the case for me and many others. Introverts and some other weird guys will pretend like they are not interested in you. But don’t brush them off quickly if you like them, it’s a trick. They just want to know if you really care about them too and they just want a green light. I usually act this way but once there is an initiation of communication, mehn! I open up to a point of vulnerability. But be careful honey, some guys who ignore you just ignore you because they don’t like you. You may observe how they react towards other people.
6. HE FOLLOWED YOU ON SOCIAL MEDIA
If you have been suspecting he likes you and you suddenly got a notification that Mr Liker followed you or sent you a friend request, then you don’t need to ask a Prophet if your assumptions are true, it is true! But wait a minute! Don’t start acting all over him if you like him. Don’t even initiate the conversation, let him continue what he started so you can be really sure.
7. HE AVOIDS OTHER GIRLS
Okay, let me just clear you on this. Single guys who are searching don’t really avoid other girls and those who aren’t even searching, may not avoid other girls from a conversation. However, if a dude likes you, he is likely to always pretend he doesn’t like talking with other girls. Try joking around him with “you like my friend right?” Maybe that is when you will hear the truth anyway.
8. HE BECOMES THE ALMIGHTY PROVIDER
I am not serious, please! He truly can’t become your almighty provider but he would want to be. Just ask him to help you with call airtime and see how he responds. Any man who truly likes you will also want to help you out with certain things as much as he can and sometimes as much more than he can. Men are just wired like that! Sweetheart, don’t milk him, please. If you don’t like him, try to help him by making it clear and turning down his gifts to some extent.
9. HE BECOMES A TALKATIVE AROUND YOU
This is just me! If I like you, I am answering all unasked questions already and rolling out my life plans to you! If he really likes you, he would want to share some things about himself with you including his future. This is chiefly because he is already fantasizing you as his Mrs.
10. HIS EYES ARE ON YOU NOT HIS PHONE
When you are around him, does he always pay attention on his phone or on you? This may be tricky anyway. Some dudes are so shy that they can’t look up to you for a moment and so they may be wanting to keep themselves busy with their phones to avoid eye contact but in most cases, a guy who likes you will not want the phone to come in the way. Even if he isn’t talking, he wants to be listening.
11. HE TRIES TO KEEP THE FLOW
If he likes you, you will notice it when he always wants to keep the conversation going. He may even ask you unnecessary questions like “have you eaten today?” “You drank water today?” but a dude who knows how to start a conversation will always have striking points to talk about and you’d never get bored. This is because he is doing everything possible to keep the conversation flowing and perhaps he might find a suitable ground for a safe landing.
12. HE REQUEST FOR YOUR PHONE NUMBER
What else are you thinking? Do you think he is requesting for your number because he needs more contacts on his phone? Or do you think he wants to discuss business with you when there isn’t any business you both have together? He is requesting your number because he wants to keep in touch with you. He wants to keep in touch with you because he likes you! Whether he is looking for a casual friendship, a one night stand or a relationship, he likes you or is lusting after you and wants to stay connected to you.
There are several other things a man would do towards you to express his hidden likeness for you and what you choose to do with these expressions is your business. Remember, you shouldn’t throw yourself at any man just because he is giving you clues that he likes you. That he likes you doesn’t mean he loves you or is the suitable person for you anyway, so you have to be very sensitive and wise here. And you should let him do the hunting if you like him. You are a queen and you are worth every attention. Several people would show these signs for several reasons, either because they are lusting after you, or they truly like you and want to kick off friendship with it.
There are ways you could also get to be sure. You may have to get closer to him but never show any sign of desperation, just give him the opportunity to express it in an obvious way. And what if you don’t like him? Knowing that he likes you gives you an opportunity to put up your defences and avoid getting attached to someone you don’t like.
The ball is in your court, isn’t it? Play safe!