ALLURING MEN | Staying attractive to your woman!

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I will try to make this very brief! So don’t be afraid, it is not going to be long!
Whether you are in a relationship, you can keep being attractive for your woman! You don’t just stay attractive till you get what you want, you keep staying attractive because it spices up your relationship! Being Godly shouldn’t mean being unattractive and while many people think being attractive should be the concern of women only, men have to be intentionally attractive! Not just because they want to be found but because they want to win the heart of whom they found. Yea, this article isn’t about attracting a business partner, it is about attracting a woman! Yea, yea! Being Godly doesn’t mean being less concerned about relationships. Aside “fine boy” looks, there are great qualities every woman; at least Godly women would desire from their men! I will quickly list here
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1. LEADERSHIP ABILITY
Hey! This is not another talk of men being the head of the house or the head of the world! Cut that crap! This isn’t about patriarchy at all. A woman wants a man who has the ability to take initiatives! A woman wouldn’t want to be the one to make date plans, she may have her plans but you must be bold enough to make the move while she softly integrate her plans to yours. A woman’s opinion will always count but a woman wants you to boldly make decisions while also considering her own say, she doesn’t want you to be a weakling. Just like Jesus showed us servant-leadership example, a woman wants a man who can lead her by example and not by bossy display of authority.
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2. LISTENING ABILITY
Oh yea! People always say women are talkative and we have such thing like “girls talk” which sounds like where matured parrots are in competition to speak. Enough! Get it straight up… Women will always talk or want to talk things out whether you fancy it or not and that is how they are wired. There may be few exceptions who got tamed due to upbringing but a woman naturally wants to talk about everything while a man may not feel talking is very important especially when it is “girls talk!” To be very attractive to your woman, learn to enjoy her talks, at least pretend! Yea, you heard me! Pretend until you start enjoying it truly! After a very hard day a woman will want to talk and she feels safe with anyone who is ready to listen to her all the time. A man who is able to listen is also a man who is able to learn. Many men don’t want to think a woman can teach them, they want to think they are just smart like that! Women don’t like “Mr Know all” but they want a man who knows, who admit he is yet to know and who keeps improving on his knowing! They know such a man will be very understanding than a man who claims to know everything. If you can listen to a woman and respond accordingly especially with smiles to show you are enjoying it, she has obviously found a great friend in you! If she calls you on phone and want to speak with you for long, if you have the time, give it to her.
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3. GIVEN TO PRAYER
I can say for believers anyway! A woman wants a man who can teach her and pray with her. One of the best ways to build a wonderful godly relationship is to pray together. In fact, a quick test for who isn’t compatible with you is when you can’t pray with that person or when she can’t pray with you. It is true that in Africa, most men want to depend on their wives “ability to pray” while they go about their businesses but a woman finds a man who can always lead or initiate prayers very attractive. I didn’t say you should just start shouting prayers so she will discover you pray. It is not in shouting but it cannot be hidden. When you pray, especially when you pray for her even in her absence, something will keep telling her “this is the real man!”
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4. HUMILITY
Pride goes before a fall. Oh yea! Even in relationships, the proud one begins to seem unimportant because he spends all his time trying to prove he is very important and much more important in the relationship than the woman. He wants the woman to bow to him, he wants the woman to worship him and do just everything for him… He is a thorn in the flesh of the woman without knowing! A woman finds a man who is humble very attractive because a humble man can always express love and care to the woman, anytime and anywhere! A humble man can take turns to do those things regarded as a women’s duty in certain parts of the world. A woman will never find a man who feels “how can I serve her tea? Impossible!” attractive. Yes, some women eventually still go for these kind of men for other reasons anyway. But if you want a woman to find you attractive, deal with your pride… Get your high shoulders down so they can find it easy to climb!
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5. ABILITY TO PUT SELF ON CONTROL
A woman will find a man who has self control very attractive. A man who has self control will not let anger or jealousy take the best of him and women will want to risk their beautiful body to someone who doesn’t know the difference between boxing ring and the woman’s body. Again, the woman will not find a man who can’t be faithful to her as attractive! If you are always been caught from one suspicious position to another, the woman will be scared of you! It is also true that some few women have given up and would say “I don’t care if he cheats, I just want him to remember he have me at home.” but it is a lie that they find cheaters attractive. Self control is a very wonderful virtue any woman will love to see in their man!
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6. BEING YOUNG AT HEART
A woman want a man who can play with her, be proud of her in the public and make her feel loved at all times! Now, this is super attractive! This can only happen when the man remains young at heart. When a man continues to deliberately look for ways to excite his woman, the woman will keep finding him attractive. A woman doesn’t want a man who is mean all the time, she wants a man who can find her funny at times, a man who can ease her off the hard times of her days and she wants a man who doesn’t find her boring! Believe me, if you keep being formal and moody to your woman, she starts finding you unattractive.
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7. BE APPRECIATIVE
This is the last I’d want to list here! A woman wants a man who appreciates her a lot. The woman may prefer to cook all her life for her man not because she has a special ability to do that but because she always want the man to find reasons to appreciate her. The woman wants a man who will always tell her how beautiful she is looking, a man who can tell her “wow! That dress is nice on you, you are just good my darling!” It may not always sound interesting to the man, but the woman wants it so well! Sometimes, just appreciate the woman for coming into your life and believe me she will want to show a better appreciation herself.
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Now women, what do you find attractive in a man? Men, what you think women find attractive in you? Let’s hear your views on the comment section!
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Blessings!
I am George O.N
The Man-In-God
#GracefulGeorge

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