OPEN LETTER TO MY BABY

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Hello Baby,
I am aware you want to come into this world as quick as possible and believe me when I tell you that I sincerely can’t wait to see you, have you in my arms, look into your eyes and the see the exact love I shared with my wife through it. I am completely emotional about your arrival and I know it’s gonna happen at the right time. Don’t take my delays as fear or unwillingness to take the big step.
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I am currently in a process, a process that will make me a better husband to that beautiful woman through whom you will emerge and I am also in the process of becoming a better father to you. I want you to know that we can only take care of you well when we are ready for you and don’t be scared, we are getting ready for you.
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I am sorry to announce this to you, I am still searching for your mama, I know she is somewhere not very far away, I am aware she is very close and maybe I have even crossed her path just that we are yet to have that bold conviction. Your mama isn’t ready, I am not ready too because we want you to enter this world triumphantly.
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Baby, I made a lot of mistakes in life and I am certain it is not one of the things you’ll inherit because what is gone is gone. You will also not inherit any from mum. Not that you aren’t allowed to make mistakes but no, you won’t continue in our mistakes and that is why we are preparing ourselves to be the best parents in the world.
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Just before you arrive, I’d like you to understand that there might come a time when you may want something and I wouldn’t give it to you because it isn’t the right time to have it yet. A time may come when I’d give you a little smack and push you out of trouble. I am not being wicked, I am disciplining you out of love. When you cry I am sure I’d be crying in my heart too because all I want for you is to be happy and yet well brought up. So when these things happen just keep bearing in mind that mummy and daddy doesn’t hate you. We’ll surely always show you as much love as we can afford. I am hyper-sensitive, so I’d always find means to discipline you without hurting you. Please, don’t be extremly emotional like me! I want you to stay in the middle of both world.
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Baby, I am trying to build a life currently for the woman I will forever live with, the woman I will call my wife and the woman you will call mother. I wouldn’t want to bring you into the world unannounced and without getting ready. I also don’t want to bring you to the world through the wrong person. So, I am careful with my steps right now by God’s grace and trust me, I will be fine.
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Please, don’t learn love from anywhere else except I and your mama. Just look at us and I am sure you’d see love getting afresh every morning. Learn how to treat the female by studying how I treat your mama. Learn how to treat the male by looking at how mama treats me. I surely will never make mistakes in choosing a life partner so you can trust us and also learn loyalty and faithfulness from us. We will join hands in love and watch you grow in the knowledge of Jesus.
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I promised you so many years ago that I’d have you at the age of 25 but things didn’t happen as fast as I thought, I am truly sorry but like I told you, we’ll be fine. Very soon, I’d hold my woman close, look into her own eyes and see you through her eyes. Every love I share with her is extended to you and you’ll always be surounded by the super-aura of that love we share.
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Until mama and I are ready, until we say it’s time to take our love to the next level, until we begin seeing you through our eyes, until we plant that seed and I put my ear to her womb to always hear you kick, until you become too heavy for mummy to carry in her womb… I know that someday I’d be your daddy!
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I also know mama keeps having a reminder every month that you’d come someday. Sometimes it might become painful but even in the pains I am sure she always think of you knowing that someday she will be your mom, I will be your dad and you will be our child.
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I keep praying for you.
Other things I’d say to you is when you’re here.
Take care my beautiful baby.
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I write on behalf of Mama too!
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Your’s always,
George O.N

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